I hasn't cured long enough. My suggestion is to give it at least 3 more months before deciding. I find soaps with high lard/tallow and high butters need a long time to cure before they stop feeling waxy. My limits right now with a long cure is about 40% tallow and 10% butters (regardless of the kind I use). They still need a long cure to lose that waxy feeling. At 8 weeks, I wanted to dump mine. At 5 months, they are heavenly.
If you decide you don't want to wait, I would use a base of 30% tallow or lard, 15% coconut, 5% castor and the rest your favorite liquid oils (olive, sunflower, canola, apricot kernel, rice bran, hazelnut) and some avocado/macademia (at least 10%). If I'm doing it, I would probably add about 15 to 20% Avocado/macademia oils because I like them, 10% canola and the rest whatever I have handy. These are the oils that feel silky to me, YMMV.