They are very difficult to talk to. I found a number online and basically had to lie my way through the automated answers to get to talk to some one who was very nice but couldn’t give me any more information.
I have had to deal with issues on Ebay in the past and usually had not too difficult of a time. Biggest problem is the language gap as most of their phone people are based in the Phillipines. At least for me that is.
1. Due to the language problems, if there is a misunderstanding then ask to speak to a supervisor. DON'T let the person you're talking to try to say otherwise. Be firm but polite and keep requesting a supervisor. Ebay's "Online Chat" is absolutely horrible... never use that venue to deal with issues.
2. Escalate the issue further up the chain, if possible. Something happened somewhere that's for sure.
3. How many transactions had you done on Ebay? To be honest, the higher the transaction count (whether buyer or seller) the easier it is to get issues resolved.
4. Some sellers, very few in fact, are complete tools and will do anything to ruin a buyer's standing or reputation, all because of an issue that occurred.
5. Persistence is the key. Myself, being a former purchasing agent, would put that "hat" on when dealing with issues whether it's Ebay, PayPal, Amazon, etc.
Here is the number I use to contact Ebay Customer Service: 866-540-3229
DON'T GIVE UP! There are layers of the proverbial onion one must peel away in order to the answer.
What I find most surprising is that most articles I have found about it, state that it happens mostly to Ebay sellers, not so many to buyers. And that ebay usually emails you to notify you in advance, or warn you. The fact that this took you by surprise tells me they didn't email you, so I suspect something really weird has happened.
She is absolutely correct!
There is something hinky going on here and it needs to be resolved.