True - the problem lies in not knowing whether or not you like something. I want to use lard SO bad, but there are some things I need to work out first, before I feel comfortable doing it. Cognitive dissonance is not an option for me.
Totally. Soaping allows for customization. I am guessing that most people make their soaps according to what they believe is best for them. Otherwise we would all just go to the grocery store (those of us who have access) and buy some cheap soap.
It seems that certain reasons for including and excluding ingredients may be more controversial than others on this forum at the moment. (e.g. Reaction to synthetic detergents vs. toxin avoidance). I have no judgements.
It looks like you hit a few nerves with your question because we do not enter discussions with the same underlying assumptions. Nevertheless, your original question as I understood it, was about unsaponifiables in lard. It would be nice if we could just discuss that regardless of whether or not people think that you should be concerned by what's in your soap. Your concerns and preferences are yours and I respect that.
P.S. I love lard in my soap.