Hi! Do you usually make soap with 10% SF? That contributes to softness, among other things.
If you really like high % OO soap, besides adjusting the SF lower (don't go higher than 4-5 % IMO, even 3% would be fine, especially for this particular revipe), try adjusting the water content as well - that will help with firming up too. Go for lye concentration of 40%, for such recipe it should be fine.
I agree that overall your recipe is too high on liquid oils and that contributes to softer bars after the cut and some time into curing. But as the rest mentioned, with time it will get better. If another recipe is fine to use after a month, this one would need at least 2 months in the best case scenario to show some good qualities in the shower - and it can still be not enough. Changing it a bit and including more solid oils like palm, tallow, or lard will help significantly.
You didn't say how much oats and honey you used, too much will contribute to the overall softness as well - in addition to everything else that was mentioned. HTH!