Kind of a simple question....I usually get the ultra-refined shea from wholesale supplies plus. But I put an order in with Columbus Foods - got the refined kind...obviously there's was much MUCH cheaper...so I ordered some because I use it alot, soaps, lotions, bath fizzies.. so I get it and it's very "grainy" as I have heard yall say before. Is this going to affect my lotions? I've soaped with it and it didn't seem to change that much..but Im very worried about my lotions. Anyone have any experience with this kind?