Lin19687
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So many things I want to get done and want to get done today... not enough time
Oooh, they have a app too! I know what I'll be playing with later lol! Thanks Battlegnome! [emoji4]I recently discovered a website called Canva. It’s like a free, online version of photoshop. I there are a ton of templates and I think you can set your size on some of them.
Oh, I'd be saying...Go... NOW! I don't care what YOU think! It's about your daughter, not him.brothers who are too lazy to be inconvenienced with picking up our mother for my daughters grad party.. he actually said "Its ok if she doesnt go" So once again with the limited time I have that day. Ill have to figure it out myself.
He doesnt work that way. We will be picking her up on our way there. We moved 2-1/2 hours away so it will be tight time wise but its that or she doesnt go. I decided tonight that I am taking over the care of my Mother 100% and moving her near me. She deserves better than that. He was this way the last 3 years of my dads life and wouldnt help me take care of him either. I will never understand people like that.Oh, I'd be saying...Go... NOW! I don't care what YOU think! It's about your daughter, not him.
He doesnt work that way. We will be picking her up on our way there. We moved 2-1/2 hours away so it will be tight time wise but its that or she doesnt go. I decided tonight that I am taking over the care of my Mother 100% and moving her near me. She deserves better than that. He was this way the last 3 years of my dads life and wouldnt help me take care of him either. I will never understand people like that.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I don't think you ever lose the connection to somebody that you had a child with. I am sure you are also feeling some of those feelings on your son's behalf.Yes, you are right. It's not going to change. You don't ever have to forgive him, but in turn you'd never forgive yourself if you didn't do this. And fogiving yourself is very important, but it's easier if you don't have anything for which you have forgive yourself.
I feel badly for your Mom, and your Dad. Both of them surely knew/know their son's short comings and probably felt some guilt about that. It's hard not to feel that way when you're a parent.
Speaking of parents, my sons' father is dying. It's not so much as a gripe as a sadness that my sons are going through losing a parent. I just learned about this at about 6pm yesterday when my younger son called me to make sure he has the correct number for his brother, whom I had just been visiting. He told me while we were on the phone. I haven't been married to this man in over 45 years, and I have been happily married for many years since, and yet I teared up when I heard the news and how he is dealing with his impending death. I was surprised it hit me the way it did.
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