Cherrycoke, the method I use is:
1. Mix lye water and allow to cool to room temperature or just above. (70-90 degrees F usually closer to 70)
2. Heat solid oils until completely clear.
3. Add liquid oils to the melted solid oils and combine well.
4. Allow combined oils to cool to 90-110 F. Usually, I like to soap with the combined oils right around 100 F. If the combined oils are looking cloudy and not completely clear at this point I'll VERY gently warm them until the cloudiness just disappears. (It isn't strictly necessary to reheat the oils if they are cloudy, but it does help to avoid false trace.)
5. Add lye water and hand whisk to emulsification or level of trace desired based on the design I'm planning.
That's what works for me, but my recipe has cocoa butter, shea butter, palm oil, PKO, coconut, castor, and pomace olive oil all of which can accelerate trace. Additionally, I work with "full water" amounts which works out to about a 27% lye concentration. If I need extra time to do an intricate swirl or design I'll even go with a 25% lye concentration to slow things down a bit. Even with a 25% lye solution I don't think I've ever had to whisk more than five minutes to reach light trace.