You know. I cannot understand not using soap when you get wet. We have pretty awesome, mild water. And apparently, we're the last major city (or something like that), that doesn't (yet) have fluoridated water. They're trying to pass it, and I so don't want them to, for reasons that take way too long to explain.
But, while I have the "short, pixie cut" referenced earlier, my daughter has the most beautiful straight hair. In fact (she's almost 5), she gets compliments on it EVERYWHERE she goes. She cut her hair last year, and I had to fix that into a pixie cut, but it's now growing into a beautiful, just below the shoulders style.
My point is, I'm not the best mommy in the world when it comes to keeping my kids clean. I have always disliked giving them baths. Reason is, it's an ordeal to clean them up with the soap and shampoo, and I get just as wet as they do, in the process. Luckily, they're just coming to an age, where they'll soon be able to do it, themselves. But, I prefer giving them a bar of soap and saying, "wash yourself." So, in this case, their skin ends up clean, but they never wash their hair, it just ends up wet.
If you could see that hair. It's obvious, whether her hair has actually been washed with shampoo/conditioner or not. You can tell a mile away. Her beautiful hair, ends up a bit ratty, and greasy, and it really looks disgusting.
That all being said. I'm really not a fan of bathing every day. I know that most people in the world find this horrid. But, I really believe in bathing every other day. I hate the way I feel, if I bathe every day. Of course, my husband sort of has to shower every day. He has a very dirty job. But, I really don't.
My hands get washed ALL the time: dishes, touching my kids' hands which they recently coughed on, cleaning dirty things in the house. . . you name it. So many reasons to wash my hands: using the toilet, the most prominent (I sure hope Mr. Soapless guy at least abides that)..
Because of all of this, soap is a must. I do, somewhat see where he's coming from. But, he's taking it overboard.