I've never made soap before. It looked like fun and I thought my boys and I could make it and sell it together. Now my boys are asleep, it's 5am, I'm alone in the kitchen with "soap" that will not trace. And I'm mad. I've got emu, avocado, coconut and soybean oil going on. I'm using a regular hand mixer bc I couldn't find my stick blender. I went 20 on, then 5 on and 5 off. I want to go to bed. Help!!!!