Yes, I understand where you're coming from, Newbie! Once an emulsion breaks, it can be hard to fix it back again. I've noticed this with my lotion making too, so pat yourself on the back for having given your all, given the difficult situation. Give the softer soap a little more time to firm up, perhaps?
I gingerly removed my soap from the mold several hours ago and actually got it cut a little while ago. If you'd asked me earlier in the day if I would be cutting bars tonight, I would have laughed and shook my head. So much for me being able to anticipate what this soap is going to do!
The unmolding and cutting went okay, but the appearance of the soap varies quite a bit. It's not the prettiest soap I've ever seen -- it's rather homely, in fact. The the outer shell of the loaf is opaque, light yellow, and relatively firm. The center of the loaf is darker, more translucent, and still relatively soft, as you can see in the pics. I sometimes see a drop or two of liquid oozing from the translucent sections and that is leaving voids in the soap (visible in the pics as well).
The soap bars are clammy cold tonight, which is quite different than my usual soaps. The water in these bars is evaporating fast in my winter-dry house. I need to get them weighed before bedtime to keep my promise to AnnaMarie.
What I do find interesting is the soap is not zappy at 24 hours after being made. I think it has some excess alkalinity because there's an odd tingle (AnnaMarie -- didn't you mention this too?), but I'm not getting a really-truly unmistakable zap to say it's seriously alkaline.
I think a little more practice is required before I can say I really know how to make this recipe. But I learned one thing -- CPOP is definitely out! I think the emulsion is barely stable at warmish room temps, and just can't handle CPOP's 170 degrees. I really didn't think of that last night, but it seems so obvious today. Engblom's suggestion to saponify the oil with the 50:50 lye:water solution to trace and then slowly add the extra water might be a way to help the emulsion remain stable -- much like making homemade mayonnaise or Hollandaise sauce.
"...I'm getting the distinct impression that this recipe although simple to make is very particular to method...."
Yep, I agree! I'm enjoying myself -- thanks for getting this started, AnnaMarie. Great fun!