Ok. Initially, I clicked on this thread out of curiosity, just to see what kind of weird idea somebody had come up with, and laugh a little. Then, I found myself reading all 6 pages of this thread. :shock:
Now, here's my take on it:
First, I agree with everybody that breast milk should be used, first and foremost, to feed babies. As a second use, I think feeding other people's babies (donating) is a wonderful thing to do.
Second, as a man, I have had the opportunity to see several ladies, throughout my life, breastfeeding their kids. Some of them friends of mine, some total strangers. I find that's one of the most beautiful, magical sights ever. And yes, I'm a boobs man too, however, seeing a woman breastfeed has never had a sexual meaning for me.
Third, I agree, breast milk is a body fluid. So is cow's milk, goat's milk, cow's blood, etc.
Would I drink breast milk, like I drink cow's milk? Probably not, but I couldn't say for sure. I've never been in that situation.
Would I use breast milk soap? Yes, why not? If it has any particular properties I'm looking for, I wouldn't give it a second thought. Of course, if a lady friend came to me and gave me some of her breast milk bars, that'd probably give me a whole lot of ideas that had nothing to do with soapmaking... :wink:
Would I buy breast milk soap? Probably not, unless I knew where it came from, but that has nothing to do with who it came from. I just wouldn't feel comfortable thinking that milk might be from some woman who could be starving her child to make a buck. Other than that, there's no EWW factor for me. If it's good soap, I'd use it.
Just my 0.02...