V, I loved your post, although it did make me sad. This is one of those rare posts that I wish I could like a bunch of times to implicitly say "thank you, you understand, and made me cry in a good way which I hope will help with the hard times ahead." Your relationship w/your dad sounds really special. I have hispanic friends that describe making holiday tamales like this, a time that you just get to hang out with family in a way that is impossible otherwise. I love that you still have "Mingo conversations" in your head, how comforting, and what a good way to remember him. Food is one of those crazy things, isn't it? Smells can take me back to good times in an instant, sometimes bad ones, too, though (um, tequila? Not a good reminder scent for alcoholics.)
Snappy, it is so cool that you introduced your kids to different foods early on, I think that is a pretty great gift. Food is such an amazing experience, I always feel sorry for people that are not willing to try anything, and see if they like it. Before I got my dogs I used to travel a lot, and food - espec. local food/street food if it is that kind of place - is such a great way to explore somewhere new. Kids that grow up w/only one kind of food and are not required to try at least one bite of something else, I just think it is harder for them to want to explore later on, and there is such a big world of flavors out there!
Nav, you are a hard core Indian food lover
Not many non-Indians can handle Indian sweets. V, I think Nav is talking about chutney, like Major Greys (are you Nav?), not pickle, though.
amd, awesome that you had never tried Indian food before and fell in love w/it on your trip. I am going to admit, I have difficulties traveling in India, ,and I am Indian. It is one of those places that can be great or awful, depending on your tolerance for um, external stimuli
Aline, it never fails to amuse me when I see curry referred to as one of the national dishes of England! We have such a troubled history. As w/everywhere, I suspect it is just a question of time until enough people marry each other and there are enough olive colored kiddies running around