I think it depends entirely on how they are used. While I am aware of other folks having issues with them breaking, I do use a 2 quart glass mixing bowl to melt my hard oils in the microwave. For me, this is an educated decision based on my particular circumstances.
I soap very cool...nearly room temp. So, I only mw my hard oils, and I only heat just to the point of being "mostly liquid-ish". Also, I only run the mw in 30-second bursts, with a couple minutes in between as I scamper around the kitchen gathering all my supplies and ingredients. The bowl never gets hot, so I'm not overly concerned with having it explode.
Once my hard oils are semi-liquid, I add them to my liquid oils in a nice, sturdy paint bucket. My lye solution is then added to the oils in the bucket. The lye never comes in contact with my glass measuring bowl, so I'm not concerned the lye will cause surface etching, which would then lead to breaking.
So my advice is to think it through for your particular situation...like everything else in life, YMMV.