I'm so glad I didn't offend you. Sometimes what I write which is meant to be friendly advice isn't taken that way by the person reading it. That's the downside of interacting through a forum.
You're right! There is a lot of misinformation of the internet. It's scary at times reading some of what is being posted. Here are some links to sites which you may have already seen. But it you haven't, you'll find good information which will help you. They cover the same information but sometimes it's helpful to read about the process as written by different people. You might read it on one blog but it may not not quite make sense until you read it phrased differently.
Miller's Homemade Soap Page
Miller's Troubleshooting Help- this page has been extremely helpful for me :wink:
How to Make Cold Process Soap by Lovin Soap Blog
Soap Making by David Fisher
Soap Queen Cold Process Blog
Cold Process Soapmaking Videos by Soap Queen TV
You also might be interested in learning about Crockpot Process Hot Process method. I learned how to do CPHP from Ms. Brenda's tutorial but Gracefruit's is excellent, too. eta: I forgot to mention honor435 generously helped me learn CPHP. She answered my questions when I didn't quite understand something.
Ms. Brenda's CPHP Tutorial
Gracefruit's CPHP Tutorial
Awhile ago, I found this tutorial for
HP on the stove. I was amused by her writing style and she has lots of pictures showing the steps the soap goes through while it's cooking. However, I'd recommend using a double boiler if you're only doing a small batch.
Also on Gracefruit's site, I came across
palm free soap recipes so I thought I'd include the link since a lot of people have been discussing palm free recipes.
A couple of books which helped me were "The Everything Soapmaking Book" by Alicia Grosso and "Smart Soapmaking" by Anne L. Watson. I've heard good comments about "Milk Soapmaking" by Anne Watson but I haven't read it. But I thought I'd mention it if you decide to try milk soaps.
I hope some of this helps and I think making my own soap is a cool hobby, too. You'll just have to make the soap and start handing it out to create converts.
I want to say that each batch will get better and better as you tweak your recipes. I started handing out my soaps right away to family and friends and they weren't too impressed. It wasn't until I had made soap for about 9-10 months when I realized how much better my soap had become because of experimenting. I found out by using a bar from one of my earlier batches and realized it wasn't very nice and a bit drying. I was quite embarrassed when I realized I had been giving these out.
Good luck with your soap making!