"...It is the vagueness and the changing story that makes me uncomfortable. While I understand that I have no control over what she does with the soap after purchase, the thought that she might be reselling and making money off of my work is deeply annoying, especially if she's not being straightforward about what she wants to do....."
Many of my clients never explain what they're doing with my products. Why should they? It is truly none of my business. A person who has bought and paid for a product has legal ownership of said product. It is perfectly legal and appropriate for her to do whatever she wishes with her property, including reselling, without my permission or knowledge.
Some of my clients resell at a handsome markup of my price -- and others choose to give the product away. I set my prices fairly for my business, so I am properly compensated. If I don't feel my prices are fair to me, I raise them. I am not resentful of someone who can resell my product for more, even a LOT more. More power to them being able to market my goods to a well-heeled clientele. And more power to them coming back to me for more. In the end, we are both benefiting.
I'm so very puzzled by the angst being expressed. I suspect over a decade of running a small biz dealing with all sorts of clients, big and small, retail and wholesale, has given me a broader point of view.
Many of my clients never explain what they're doing with my products. Why should they? It is truly none of my business. A person who has bought and paid for a product has legal ownership of said product. It is perfectly legal and appropriate for her to do whatever she wishes with her property, including reselling, without my permission or knowledge.
Some of my clients resell at a handsome markup of my price -- and others choose to give the product away. I set my prices fairly for my business, so I am properly compensated. If I don't feel my prices are fair to me, I raise them. I am not resentful of someone who can resell my product for more, even a LOT more. More power to them being able to market my goods to a well-heeled clientele. And more power to them coming back to me for more. In the end, we are both benefiting.
I'm so very puzzled by the angst being expressed. I suspect over a decade of running a small biz dealing with all sorts of clients, big and small, retail and wholesale, has given me a broader point of view.