@Shelley D I'm like you, and my skin doesn't love coconut oil very much, either! One thing you can do instead of researching other people's recipes, is to learn about the various fatty acids, and the qualities that each of them brings to your soap. Then you can design your own recipes from scratch. Good places to learn about fatty acids in soap include this article and this one.
While this can help prevent false trace, it isn't truly necessary. In fact, some folks use their fresh, steaming hot lye to melt their room temperature hard oils, before adding their liquid oils to the batter. It's called the Heat Transfer Method.Just make sure that when you combine your lye solution to your oils that the temperature of each is within 10° of each other