Most beginning liquid soap makers typically add too much water. Since you didn't share any details about your dilution method, I can't say that's true for you, but it's certainly a possibility.
It doesn't matter if you add extra water during the cook, because the dilution method you use should allow for variations in the water content and fatty acid content of the soap. Every batch is a little different, so the amount of water you used last time, even with a tried and true recipe, will not be exactly what you'll need this time.
For a new recipe, add about 1/2 part water by weight to 1 part paste. When mixed and smooth, check the consistency. If more water is needed, add about 1/4 part water to the original 1 part paste. Check. If more water is needed, add 1/8 part. And so on.
Near the end, you may be adding water 1 teaspoon at a time. Or you can skim off any thicker lumps or thick surface layer from the rest of the properly diluted soap and dilute these thicker bits separately. That reduces the chance you'll mess up the whole batch.
With a tried and true recipe, add a large part of the water you used last time -- maybe something like 3/4ths of the total -- check, add a bit more water if needed, check, and so on. Experience will be your guide.
You do not need to cook liquid soap or any other hot process soap for hours 'n hours. Most hot process soap is zap free within an hour and often more like 1/2 hour. Longer cooking is not doing any particular good unless you
know the soap isn't quite done yet. Don't get stuck on seeing all the visual stages that people say you should see so you keep cooking until you're sick of it.
Sometimes you get lucky and see all the signs, but sometimes you don't.
To get a honey thick soap by dilution only, you need to raise the oleic acid to around 50%. You really can't go wrong with the Irish Lass recipe:
http://www.soapmakingforum.com/showthread.php?p=428988 see posts 8 and 9.
You won't get any liquid soap to be much thicker than honey without using an external additive (salt, HEC, HMPC, etc.) Thickeners aren't all bad. Ones such as HEC and HPMC (but not salt) will let you dilute the soap down to a lower % of pure soap and still have a thick product. Controlling the % soap in the product at, maybe, 20% will reduce waste (people tend to use more liquid soap than they really need), will reduce the tendency for the soap to dry the skin, and will let the soap lather easier and rinse off quicker.