Not sure I really understand the question :
You mean the optimal temperature of the soap batter before you add the essential oils?
Or the optimal temperatures of the essential oils before you mix them together?
Are you doing HP or CP? CP I add them to my oils before the lye mixture unless they are know to accelerate. HP I wait until it's cooled down somewhat before pouring into my molds. However, the only HP I do is my shaving soap.
The answers are vastly different.
With bar soap, if it accelerates, you add them after you add the color. If not, I add them to the oils before the lye.
In liquid soap, you add them after dilution, while the soap is warm, but not hot to the touch.
I have just finished a minor experiment:
Added lavender EO to two 200ml soap samples at a rate of 1% (2ml):
-One at 45˙ Celcius soap temp.
-One at room temp. soap
Result: exactly the same.
That works for that EO.
If the EO has a flash point of 45 degrees Celcius the results would be very different. The answer is that each and every EO will react differently because, well, they are different.
I would check on the flash point of a particular scent just so I could "help" it stick.
After all the scents we use are almost always the most expensive ingredient.
Granted.Similar note: Dunn briefly talked about boiling points in this article: http://roberttisserand.com/2011/06/essential-oils-in-soap-interview-with-kevin-dunn/
But I find the notion of avoiding a 204C/399F soap (for lavender, for example) a bit on the funny side. We never really exceed 95C/203F.
I have just finished a minor experiment:
Added lavender EO to two 200ml soap samples at a rate of 1% (2ml):
-One at 45˙ Celcius soap temp.
-One at room temp. soap
Result: exactly the same.
They are indeed lacking, but not because I don't want to listen or believe you, but because you simply don't provide an explanation on what the problem is.
Person A: red socks ain't good.
Person B: Why?
Person A: trust me, years of experience.
Person B: ...
I'm more than willing to learn (its why im here, I find it fruitless to reinvent the wheel when someone more experienced can steer me away from senseless trial and error), but hey, "just cuz" isn't an answer. Do tell what the outcome of improper EO mixing was (and what improper EO mixing is).