Honest questions asking for help are never a pain. We were all once where you are now.
I found this video series helpful when I started.
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There is LOTS of information here on this forum and many of the questions you have were probably asked many times. So a search of previous threads will help you a lot. That's not to meant discourage you from asking... just to speed things up for you.
A couple of hints based on your original post.
- Your recipe is over 6 pounds. That's a big batch for a beginner. Try to scale down to around 2 pounds until you get the hang of things. You will waste a lot less of your supplies. I began with a recipe from a book that made 8 pounds. The first batch came out WONDERFUL. The next two batches however had problems. That's when I learned to do small batches until I was sure of my recipe.
- Even though you found a recipe in a book, that is no guarantee it is a good recipe. Learn to use Soapcalc.com or another online
soap calculator and your life will be MUCH easier. Run EVERY recipe through a
soap calculator even if it is printed in a book.
- If a significant amount of oil seperated from your soap, there is a good chance your soap is lye heavy (not a good thing). There may be ways to save it (look up rebatching) but if your goal is to learn to make soap you may be best to just ditch this one and call it a learning experience.
- You mentioned remelting your soap a couple of times. Just be aware that melting home made CP soap is a far different experience from working with melt and pour (MP) soap that you buy already made. It's not a bad thing necessarily but it's probably not what you are thinking. Again... reading up on rebatching threads will explain this better.
Good luck and don't be afraid to try again and ask questions as you need to.