"...(I suppose to some extent this depends on if one is using a conditioner based on BTMS-25 (or -50) or cetearyl alcohol)..."
Why do you think this is so? I'm curious about your thinking on this point.
Cetearyl alcohol "is a thickener that brings slip and glide to our products."
BTMS is a cationic emulsifier ... according to Susan (of swiftcraftymonkey) "conditioner is a cationic product" and she goes on to say no cationic stuff = not a hair conditioner.
I'm sure my statement is more a reflection of my ignorance and confusion while I ascend the learning curve of hair conditioner formulation.
As an aside I purchased some "hair conditioner concentrate" which is cetearyl alcohol + stearalkonium chloride. I posted my question/statement before searching swiftcraftymonkey using "stearalkonium chloride" as the search term - stearalkonium chloride is the cationic quaternary compound that makes conditioner what it is supposed to be. I was under the incorrect assumption the primary stuff in my baggie of concentrate was the alcohol (which it is not).
-Dave