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First, don't open your door to anyone at 11pm unless it's family or an emergency. That is just inviting trouble.
Secondly, did you sign a contract? If not, I'd get the heck out of there as soon as possible.
Third, your husband needs to tell her in no uncertain terms that he sorry that she and her boyfriend have broken up, but he is a happily married man and that any communication necessary as your landlord can be conducted over the phone, in the mail or through you. He is also not obligated to be her fix it man.
She does not seem like a nice woman. Don't let her ruin your relationship with your husband.
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Secondly, did you sign a contract? If not, I'd get the heck out of there as soon as possible.
Third, your husband needs to tell her in no uncertain terms that he sorry that she and her boyfriend have broken up, but he is a happily married man and that any communication necessary as your landlord can be conducted over the phone, in the mail or through you. He is also not obligated to be her fix it man.
She does not seem like a nice woman. Don't let her ruin your relationship with your husband.
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Total skank.
Trust me, I'd be letting her know, in no uncertain terms, that her nose is about to be relocated if she doesn't put the girls away around my husband. You need to put her in her place. You know when a nasty chick is up to no good. As women, we all know. Dont second guess it....
Then your hubby needs to set her straight too.
Trust me, I'd be letting her know, in no uncertain terms, that her nose is about to be relocated if she doesn't put the girls away around my husband. You need to put her in her place. You know when a nasty chick is up to no good. As women, we all know. Dont second guess it....
Then your hubby needs to set her straight too.
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The skank needs to get a life and get the hell out of yours. I think your hubby needs to tell her to knock it off , asap.
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Oh she i bad news for sure. Does she live close to you? It sounds like you rent the house right next door to her or something?
This woman has no shame, she is a desperado from the sounds of it. What makes her think your dh wants to see her girls and to flash the muffin is just unforgivable. Geez.
Your instincts are right, she's a total scuzzball. I'm not sure that anything that you could say to her would change her behavious, unfortunately she's one of those women that gets off on chasing another woman's man. In the event that your husband (or anyone elses husband) fell for her attentions, she would toy with them for a couple of weeks and then grow sick and tired of them and discard them like old trash. I gather that's what's happened with the boyfriend. Either that, or he got sick of her flirting with other men like a total trollop.
Don't you leave your husband, he hasn't done anything wrong, correct he may not be as forceful in getting rid of her as you would like, but it's not his fault she is acting like this. And that would be letting her win.
I'd seriously be looking at moving. And documenting all of this behaviour just in case. It's women like that that will shake their tail at anything that moves, and then when someone weakens they're out screaming rape.
This situation is only going to get worse as I see it.
Get out. Give her notice, find somewhere else, move on.
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This woman has no shame, she is a desperado from the sounds of it. What makes her think your dh wants to see her girls and to flash the muffin is just unforgivable. Geez.
Your instincts are right, she's a total scuzzball. I'm not sure that anything that you could say to her would change her behavious, unfortunately she's one of those women that gets off on chasing another woman's man. In the event that your husband (or anyone elses husband) fell for her attentions, she would toy with them for a couple of weeks and then grow sick and tired of them and discard them like old trash. I gather that's what's happened with the boyfriend. Either that, or he got sick of her flirting with other men like a total trollop.
Don't you leave your husband, he hasn't done anything wrong, correct he may not be as forceful in getting rid of her as you would like, but it's not his fault she is acting like this. And that would be letting her win.
I'd seriously be looking at moving. And documenting all of this behaviour just in case. It's women like that that will shake their tail at anything that moves, and then when someone weakens they're out screaming rape.
This situation is only going to get worse as I see it.
Get out. Give her notice, find somewhere else, move on.
Done.
pops1
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I agree with Kitn,what a horrible woman.
I have never met a women like that, let alone one that is your landlady.
You need to have a real deep and meaningful talk with that husband of yours ,the only way she is going to stop is if he tells her he just isn't interested.My husband would run a mile but some men would find the attention flattering and not see the consequences of not stopping it before it goes further.
Good Luck ,don't leave your husband over it ,with a piranha like that he wouldn't stand a chance on his own.
I have never met a women like that, let alone one that is your landlady.
You need to have a real deep and meaningful talk with that husband of yours ,the only way she is going to stop is if he tells her he just isn't interested.My husband would run a mile but some men would find the attention flattering and not see the consequences of not stopping it before it goes further.
Good Luck ,don't leave your husband over it ,with a piranha like that he wouldn't stand a chance on his own.
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Well, he could just be a 'dumb guy' lol and doesn't even realize it's going on half the time - or he likes the attention... either way, you should point out what you see and tell him he needs to stop feeding it.
Then..... and this is the part where I would get in trouble if I were you.... you need to tell this flirty neighbor that you understand how she needs the constant attention from men, but your husband isn't the guy to get it from. Tell her that you thought playing stupid would make her go away, but now realize she needs a babysitter when around boys (I'm mean, but I would even go as low to ask her where her father was when she was growing up)
My husband is a cutie.... I've gotten in a few faces before lol. I cut them off at the knees the second I hear "Oh, I love that tattoo - pull your sleeve up so I can see it all" pssh..
The question "why are you flirting with my husband?" in just the right no nonsense tone, will usually shut up anyone. good luck.
By the way - I trust my husband... I'm not even a jealous person... what would frued call it - the id?
Then..... and this is the part where I would get in trouble if I were you.... you need to tell this flirty neighbor that you understand how she needs the constant attention from men, but your husband isn't the guy to get it from. Tell her that you thought playing stupid would make her go away, but now realize she needs a babysitter when around boys (I'm mean, but I would even go as low to ask her where her father was when she was growing up)
My husband is a cutie.... I've gotten in a few faces before lol. I cut them off at the knees the second I hear "Oh, I love that tattoo - pull your sleeve up so I can see it all" pssh..
The question "why are you flirting with my husband?" in just the right no nonsense tone, will usually shut up anyone. good luck.
By the way - I trust my husband... I'm not even a jealous person... what would frued call it - the id?
[/quote] she says that she just has a flirty personality and it means nothing, but i don't believe that for one second [/quote]
ok... so then you can grab her butt and say you have a flirty personality and it means nothing.. start twilrling her hair while she's talking to your husband lol
ok... so then you can grab her butt and say you have a flirty personality and it means nothing.. start twilrling her hair while she's talking to your husband lol
So a skank! You need to set her straight now! You dh sounds like he enjoys the attention a bit, not that he's thinking of taking her up on it but he really needs to set her straight as well.
Marriage can be hard enough, you don't need this skank and just get out of the place.
Marriage can be hard enough, you don't need this skank and just get out of the place.
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Good Luck with dealing with the problem ,just don't let her get you down too much.
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I think I would have to be ugly about it. I would have to say things in front of everyone like "sweetie, I can seee your boob & so can everyone else". I would also say things at other times too, maybe if she is in her yard w/ the mailman I might holler "Don't come back over tonight if you can't keep your boobs in your shirt, don't no one wanna see that again, didn't want to see it the 1st time" and then laugh like its just a joke. Shame her....
Sounds like you need to move & hubby needs to man up. He may not even realise it is going on though. He may just think she is tacky/trashy but not be adding 2 plus 2 and coming up w/ 4... men can be oblivious to that sort of thing.
Sounds like you need to move & hubby needs to man up. He may not even realise it is going on though. He may just think she is tacky/trashy but not be adding 2 plus 2 and coming up w/ 4... men can be oblivious to that sort of thing.
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