I encourage you to read through the recipe threads here, and run some of them through the calculator to see what values come up. But keep in mind that most experienced soapers want the cleansing number to be much, much lower than the calculator recommends (often 12 or less). Also, many of us don't care as much about longevity, either (we make a LOT of soap, so we need to use it up faster).
Also, some prefer lather with bigger bubbles, while others prefer lotion-y lather. Some hate lard or tallow because they can smell it, other hate high OO soaps, and others hate high CO soaps. Can you see why it is hard to recommend a "great" recipe? What's great to me might not be great to you.
With all those caveats, here is a starter recipe to try:
40% lard
30% OO
20% CO
5% cocoa butter
5% castor oil
3:1 water:lye ratio, 3% SF
Since you are hot-processing this recipe, I recommend stick-blending to thick trace. Then cover and cook it on low heat, stirring now and then and keeping the soap off the sides of the pot, to make sure it cooks evenly.
I only cook just to vaseline stage, which is rarely more than 30-40 minutes for me. Don't go all the way to mashed potatoes, which makes it too dry, too chunky, and too hard to mold, IMO. You don't need to zap-test it at this point, either. Remember that soap will saponify all on its own, even with zero cooking, so stopping earlier in the cook is always better than waiting till it is overcooked.
For each lb of oils used, dissolve 1 T sugar in ¼ cup HOT water. At the vaseline stage, stir that hot sugar water into the cooked soap. Then stir in your desired fragrance, and pour the soap into the mold. It is normally firm enough to cut within 12 hours. Wear gloves in case in case it is zappy, but wait at least 24 hours to zap-test it since it may still be saponifying.