That's a great story, Ellacho. Makes it all worth it. I think your observation is right on that most people who don't comment just have good skin, and it doesn't make that much of a difference to them. Soap is "just soap" to most of them, whether it be handmade or commercial. Some of these people might even actually like their commercial bars better for one reason or another :wtf:, but that is their prerogative.
Other categories of people I've found who appreciate handmade soap besides those with skin issues include: (1) those who also make their own crafts/gifts/etc, since they understand it takes time, money, and thought to create them; and (2) people who are motivated by scents.
I have a core group of people who are really supportive and openly state how much they love my soap. These same people tell me what they do and don't like about particular soaps, which I really value. I try to keep these people stocked and I have never taken money from any of them. I share with a lot of other people, too, but aside from a few family members who are STUCK with me and my soap, they don't get more soap if they don't say something about their gift after they initially received it. In other words, if they aren't compelled to acknowledge it after they've used it, I'm not compelled to give them more.
My list of groupies is growing so there's no need to force a fit.
I've used a questionnaire to get feedback on specific test soaps, but I don't do it for soap I give as gifts. I probably take this hobby too seriously as it is, lol!