I looked at both recipes, and here are my thoughts:
1. The Whole Elise recipe contains shea butter, which has an unfortunate habit of going grainy, especially if the lotion goes through any temperature changes. For that reason, it wouldn't be my first pick for something I'd give to someone else. You'd definitely want to make it for yourself first, and see how it holds up over time.
2. The Humblebee and Me recipe looks delightful. The only drawback for me would be the number of expensive ingredients.
If you want to start with something simpler and less expensive,
this one from Marie is great, too; I use jojoba oil instead of fractionated coconut oil since that's what my skin prefers. ETA: Meadowfoam seed oil would be another great choice. Pricey but oh so nice!
Good luck, have fun, and let us know how it turns out!