@DW2088 it doesn't look like you have any fast movers in your soap recipe. I will say that floral FOs tend to accelerated a little even if it says it plays nice.
Do you use any additives like salt, sugar, or sodium lactate?
Maybe try mixing a batch without fragrance or just hand mixing a batch without a stick blender. It could be you are over blending on accident because you view trace a certain way. Hand mixing provides a great view of trace and it's stages. I know that I found hand mixing a batch, while a pain, did provide great insight into the stages of trace.
If you haven't already seen it here's a video talking about trace.
I don't use any additives. Thanks for your contribution and shared information. I agree with you. Hand mixing could be tiring, but it helps to control your trace.