What kind of scale do you have. That can make a difference.
I have a postal scale, and I always weigh in grams because it's a lot more accurate. There are 28 grams to the ounce. Because I know this, I always remove the container from the platform and let it zero out and then reweigh it. (adding the weight of the container and the contents together, knowing this before hand to get an accurate weight) Sometimes I need to rezero my scale (turn it off and on again to keep it accurate) but when it weighs it's right on the money. But I don't like adding a bit and letting it auto adjust because that's when i see errors and I know it so I always remove the container, let it zero and reweigh every time. To keep it accurate.
I'm not sure what kind of scale yours is or how accurate it is, some are not accurate. So it's something you may want to check. Five quarters (I'm not sure about the newer state quarters but the older ones) equals 1 ounce, as declared by the US mint.
Using lye heavy soap depends on a lot of things. But mostly just how lye heavy is it. Way back in the old days soap was often lye heavy because they didn't have the technology we do today and it was very harsh on their skin. Many women had red chapped hands from using it constantly. If it was very lye heavy it could give the skin a mild burn or a good case of an irritation.
But the important thing to try and figure out is if it's lye heavy or is it just the icky tastes of soap. A zap will be a definite zing like touching your tongue to a 9 volt battery. (I had never done that either and still haven't.) But there is a difference between the zap of lye and the soapy tastes, which is just terrible, and gagging.
But don't despair, if it is off, consider it a good learning experience. You may also want to consider smaller batches at least until you get the hang of it as well. But it's a lot of fun to do and use and well worth the effort of learning.