ok, you will have to forgive me if I don't have suppliers for these ideas, but for the ladies: carnation, snowdrops, violet, tea rose, actually sweet and cloying comes to mind... :roll: not so attractive, though.
As for the men: bay rum, vetiver, any spicey, seashore type, or something woodsy, yeah, that sounds real manly and victorian to me.
For the unisex, maybe something with rosemary, mint and a little florally note.....................
I actually have no idea whether that would be very authenticly victorian, but it seems that they were quite fond of all things planty and herby.... 8)