I don't have an attitude, and if I thought it was going to be a bother to give advice, I wouldn't have posted in the first place. You have to be willing to first explain what you did so we can help you to figure out what went wrong. All the patient hand holding in the world won't solve a problem if you aren't willing to share the parameters of the problem.
Based on what you told us so far --
Cold process method is plenty fine.
Although I superfat at 2-3% as a personal preference, many others use 5% with fine results.
We still don't have much more info -- such as what you used as the lye concentration, or what other fats you might be using in addition to lard, or whether the soap got warm enough during saponification to gel, or what other additives you may have used and the amounts of each. So we can't help you troubleshoot any of these issues.
Maybe your water content is overly high, or your soap didn't gel, or you could improve your recipe with a blend of fats, or some additive is throwing a monkey wrench in the works. Or maybe you had a measurement error that gave you a higher superfat than expected because the battery in your scale is dying or you forgot to tare the scale or something.
Hard to say.