@Cindy D. I had a similar experience with buying a bunch of molds via FB destash. The package arrived in the mail, and my entire mailbox smelled perfume-y for months afterwards! I tried roasting out the scents in my oven - that worked for the molds but then my oven stank for a looooooong time. Finally I had to run the high-temp self-cleaning cycle and leave the house. I normally don't use the self-cleaning feature because several repair techs have told us that those high temps can and do fry the electronics in your oven. But I was desperate to get rid of that smell.
That being said, I've learned not to use scents that give me a headache when I open the bottle. Some scents hit me immediately, but with others, I have to leave the bottle open for a bit because the problem builds with exposure over time.
It seems like the scents that I can use don't stick around long in my silicone molds; they come out when washing with warm soapy water. That makes me think that the underlying problem may be whatever fixative is used to make some scents so darn persistent - the very thing most normal soapmakers want, hah!