I really don't care one way or the other except that if it does gel, I get complete gel so I usually put my molds in the oven, with the oven warmed but turned off. I do try to not let my milk soaps gel as I don't want my mixture to overheat and separate and I love the look and feel of the soap when it has not gelled - it has a creamier look to it. Like Paul said, it really is a matter of opinion.