Essential oils are powerful and need to be used judiciously. They are not necessarily, like so many YL, DoTerra, and mommy bloggers proclaim, the SAFE alternative to every medical problem out there.
Robert Tisserand is considered by many to be the go-to expert on Essential oils. That doesn't mean he claims you should use essential oils in place of proper medical advice.
Here is a list pertaining to the use of essential oils with children. It comes from his book. It might help you decide what is safe for your child. (below....sorry, it's long)
As for the irritation on her poor lip - simply gently cleaning it, let it air dry thoroughly, then keep the area covered well with a non petroleum or non petroleum wax lip balm will let her skin heal. I'd also suggest something without any unnecessary additives such as scents, colors, flavors.
For my 9 year old, I made a lotion bar with stearic acid, coconut oil, shea butter. She rubs it on any cut or skin problem she gets and finds it soothing. (I think it's the stearic acid)
Hope you fine something that works - she doesn't need that discomfort on top of everything else!
Here is a list of essential oils with warnings against using on or around children*according to The Book, Essential Oil Safety.
The following lists of unsafe and safe oil for children are not all-inclusive as there are 100s of different essential oils.*
Anise/Aniseed Pimpinella anisum – avoid using (all routes) on children under 5
Anise (Star) Illicium verum – avoid using (all routes) on children under 5
Basil (lemon) Ocimum x citriodorum – avoid topical use on children under 2
Benzoin Styrax benzoin, Styrax paralleloneurus and Styrax tonkinensis – avoid topical use on children under 2
Birch (sweet) Betula lenta – avoid using (all routes) on children
Black Seed Nigella sativa – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Cajuput Melaleuca cajuputi, Melaleuca leucadendron – avoid using on children under 6
*Cardamon Elettaria cardamomum – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Cassia Cinnamomum cassia, Cinnamomum aromaticum – avoid topical use on children under 2
Chaste Tree Vitex agnus castus – avoid using (all routes) on prepubertal children
Clove Bud, Clove Leaf, Clove Stem Syzygium aromaticum, Eugenia caryophyllata, Eugenia aromatica – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Cornmint Mentha arvensis, Mentha canadensis – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
*Eucalyptus Eucalyptus camaldulensis, Eucalyptus globulus, Eucalyptus maidenii, Eucalyptus plenissima, Eucalyptus kochii, Eucalyptus polybractea, Eucalyptus radiata, Eucalyptus Autraliana,Eucalyptus phellandra, Eucalyptus smithii – avoid using (all routes) on children under 10
Fennel (bitter), Fennel (sweet) Foeniculum vulgare – avoid using (all routes) on children under 5
*Galangal (lesser) Alpinia officinarum, Languas officinarum – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Garlic Allium sativum – avoid topical use on children under 2
Ginger Lily Hedychium coronarium – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Ho Leaf/Ravintsara Cinnamomum camphora (cineole chemotype)* – avoid using on children under 6
Hyssop Hyssopus officinalis (pinocamphone chemptype) – avoid using (all routes) on children under 2
*Laurel Leaf/Bay Laurel Laurus nobilis– avoid topical use on children under 2; avoid all routes for children under age 6
Lemon Leaf/Lemon Petitgrain Citrus x limon, Citrus limonum – avoid topical use on children under 2
Lemongrass Cymbopogon flexuosus, Andropogon flexuosus, Cymbopogon citratus, Andropogon citratus – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Marjoram (Spanish) Thymus mastichina – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Massoia Cryptocarya massoy, Cryptocaria massoia, Massoia aromatica – avoid using (all routes) on children under 2
May Chang Litsea cubeba, Litsea citrata, Laura cubeba – avoid topical use on children under 2
Melissa/Lemon Balm Melissa officinalis – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Myrtle (red) Myrtus communis – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Myrtle (aniseed) Backhousia anisata – avoid using (all routes) on children under 5
Myrtle (honey) Melaleuca teretifolia – avoid topical use on children under 2
Myrtle (lemon)/Sweet Verbena Backhousia citriodora – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Niaouli (cineole chemotype)*Melaleuca quinquinervia – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Oakmoss Evernia prunastri – avoid topical use on children under 2
Opopanax Commiphora guidottii – avoid topical use on children under 2
Oregano Origanum onites, Origanum smyrnaeum, Origanum vulgare, Origanum compactum, Origanum hirtum, Thymbra capitata, Thymus capitatus, Coridothymus capitatus, Satureeja capitata– avoid topical use on children under 2
Peppermint Mentha x Piperita – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Peru Balsam Myroxylon balsamum, Myroxylon pereiraw, Myroxylon peruiferum, Myrospermum pereirae, Toluifera pereirae – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Rambiazana* Helichrysum gymnocephalum – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
*Rosemary (1,8-cineole chemotype) Rosmarinus officinalis* – avoid using (all routes) on children under 10
Saffron Crocus sativus – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Sage (Greek), Salvia fruiticosa, Salvia triloba Sage (White) – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
*Sage (White) Salvia apiana – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Sage (Wild Mountain) Hemizygia petiolata – avoid topical use on children under 2
*Sanna Hedychium spicatum – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
*Saro Cinnamosma fragrans – avoid using (all routes) on children under 6
Savory Satureia hortensis, Satureia montana – avoid topical use on children under 2
Styrax Liquidambar orientalis, Liquidambar styraciflua – avoid topical use on children under 2
Tea Leaf/Black Tea Camellia sinensis, Thea sinensis – avoid topical use on children under 2
Tea Tree (lemon-scented) Leptospermum petersonii, Leptospermum citratum, Leptospermum liversidgei,– avoid topical use on children under 2
Treemoss Pseudevernia furfuracea – avoid topical use on children under 2
Tuberose Polianthes tuberosa – avoid topical use on children under 2
Turpentine Pinus ayacahuite, Pinus caribaea, Pinus contorta, Pinus elliottii, Pinus halepensis, Pinus insularis, Pinus kesiya, Pinus merkusii, Pinus palustris, Pinus pinaster, Pinus radiata, Pinus roxburghii, Pinus tabulaeformis, Pinus teocote, Pinus yunnanensis– avoid topical use on children under 2
Verbena (Lemon) Aloysia triphylla, Aloysia citriodora, Lippa citriodora, Lippa triphylla – avoid topical use on children under 2
Wintergreen Gaultheria fragrantissima, Gaultheria procumbens – avoid (all routes) on children due to methyl salicylate content
Ylang-Ylang Cananga odorata – avoid topical use on children under 2
* indicates essential oils that are high in 1,8-cineole and can potentially cause respiration to slow in children.
