You will never find a list of pH for oils or butters. By definition, things that don't have water in them, including oils and butters, do not have a pH. A product must have water in it to have a pH value.
Additives may or may not have listed pH values -- you'll have to look each one up. The pH can vary depending on how the pH is measured, so you'll have to pay attention to the method used for measurement.
For soap or synthetic detergents, the accepted method for measuring pH is to dilute the soap or syndet to a 1% or 10% solution on a pure basis. The numbers may be slightly different whether you use 1% or 10%. And the pH is definitely going to vary a lot if you try to measure the pH of a more concentrated solution of soap due to the way soap interacts with water.
Another thing about pH is that it isn't additive, although I get the impression that many people think it is. You can't mix something with a pH of 4 with another something that has a pH of 8 and absolutely end up with a pH of 6. It might work out that way, but it's even more likely to be something quite different.