So in terms of this batch, should I try rebatching to help the stearic and lye combine or should I just throw it out?
Read the shave soap threads per The Gent's suggestion. I can tell you're well on your way to reinventing the wheel from a few of the things you're saying. A few hours of homework will save a lot of time spent investigating blind alleys.
Yeah, I have a bad habit of doing that with far more than just soaps, but at the same time you can learn so much more about what you're trying to do than what's just on the surface. Starting from the ground up, overthinking, and diving in too quickly are part of how I created my hybrid heat treat for my knives and straight razors, similar to isothermal heat treatmenst for those of you who may be interested in bladesmithing. A lot of people said "just keep it simple and follow what other's have done", and that works for most people, but for me I need a deeper, more intuitive understanding of the things that most people don't even care about that I find I learn best by diving right in and ignoring all common sense (within reason).
And, yes, you really can calculate a 2-lye recipe with Soapcalc. Do it like this:
Calculate the exact same soap recipe twice. The ~only~ difference between the two versions is your choice of lye -- use NaOH as the lye for the first version and KOH as the lye for the second version. Use the same fats, the same superfat %, etc. for both versions -- just the lye is different.
Sorry, that's what I meant to say by "measuring as if for two batches", that way I can accurately use both lye solutions.
TIP: For soapcalc, be sure to put a check mark in the box for 90% KOH purity.
I almost missed that when I started calculating for my final prototype soap, but I noticed a little 90% sign by the label while checking my shipping time and thought "oops, that might be relevant to my calculations". Thank you for pointing that out to me though.
Thanks for the other
soap calculator as well, I'll check that out as soon as I get time.
Here's another long, very informative shaving thread that deals with using a mix of KOH and NaOH that will answer just about any question you might have about the subject and what calculator to use, etc...:
http://www.soapmakingforum.com/showthread.php?t=47002&highlight=croap
I myself have fallen in love with making shaving 'croaps' with a mix of 64% KOH and 36% NaOH via the hot-process method. They're nice and firm enough to hold their shape, but still soft/pliable enough to press into whatever kind of shaving mug one might have on hand, which eliminates the need for buying special shaving soap molds.
Awesome, thanks a bunch. Do you use tallow in your recipe? I was considering two recipes, one with tallow and the other with palm oil (the one I tried here), though I've heard tallow makes a harder soap bar.
Another possible idea I had (yeah, you're probably rolling your eyes at me already) was making a larger batch of soap, then remelting into some shaving bowls I turned on my wood lathe. Is there anything I might need to worry about in terms of the soap sitting in direct contact with the wood, or different kinds of wood that might react with the soap (oily woods, tar filled woods, etc?) or am I diving in too quick again?
Another thank you to everybody for your patience with me.