I agree with all of the advice Shari (shunt) gave you.
Many of us use sodium hydroxide from hardware stores and fats, oils, and other ingredients from food stores, especially when we make our first batches of soap. I do not see any problem with the ingredients you listed.
A suggestion -- Your lye concentration is about 40%, and I would not hesitate to use that lye concentration for this particular recipe. That said, you might consider trying a 33% lye concentration instead, given that this is your very first batch.
The little bit of extra water will probably give you a little more time to work with the batter. I remember I was awkward and "all thumbs" when I made my first batch, so it was a good thing my first batch moved fairly slowly.