Hi! I'm also a new soaper
I have found the absolute best learning tools are reading obsessively and YouTube.
When I say read I mean books, forums, ebooks, blogs, soap & shampoo labels, the product information on sites where you can buy soaping stuff... read it all. Learn about what colorants work, what micas work, what oils do what, which things work together, recipes -- go on recipe makers like soapcalc and play, see what works and doesn't; experiment! It's all learning, and it's free.
Then, watch all sorts of videos -- the professional ones, but also the amateurish ones, the hippies making soap in their backyard campers, How It's Made episodes about soap and detergent, videos with no voiceover that are just beautiful shots of people creating amazing soap swirls to music, long boring videos on lye safety and cleanup... watch men, watch women, watch labeling and packaging videos, tutorials on making recipes, find videos of people making mistakes. I have learned loads watching videos of soap seizing, mold lining how-tos, reviews of different products and recipes, and hour upon hour of just soaking in watching people make soap. The more I observe people creating different swirls, using certain colorants, fragrance types, making mica lines, using different types of tools, the more I learn.
I find when I'm practicing later that I'll remember back to a video or a blog/forum post -- 'oh yeah, that person did/said such and such -- don't forget that if you do x, you have to account for that with y'
I sometimes take notes if someone says something I don't want to forget that is really specific, or if I see a technique that's something I want to try, or want to tweak a bit with a different recipe, or whatever.
It takes time and practice to learn a new hobby -- every hobby has a learning curve, and soaping isn't an easy hobby. It's chemistry, it's art, there's some luck thrown in (things like weather can affect things)... but the more you learn, I'm finding, the more fun it gets. It's going to be YEARS before I'm any type of expert, but I've only been reading for a few months and I made my first soap in August less than 10 weeks ago and I know a lot more than I did at the start