Obsidian - I think you probably got my message above too late.
I wouldn't reheat your lotion as you risk denaturing the ingredients in your cool down phase and you will lose even more water.
You will also inactivate your preservative. Note germaben (which contains parabens) also is deactivated by certain ingredients in ewax -
http://swiftcraftymonkey.blogspot.com/2010/11/preservatives-inactivation-of.html. I would use liquid germall plus at 0.5% cool down phase instead unless of course you switch to using lotionpro 165 as your emulsifier instead.
Instead, as this is lotion is only for you, I would make a v thin lotion and mix both thick and thin lotions together. Use the lotion recipe for normal skin - scroll down very far until you see HOW TO TAILOR THE ABOVE BASIC RECIPE TO YOUR SKIN TYPE and you will see a table -
http://makingskincare.com/how-to-make-a-lotioncream-part-1-equipment-and-ingredients/
For future lotions....
You mentioned going back to your original recipe, but you need to use sufficient emulsifier to emulsify the oils in your lotion. If you don't you risk separation later. Your original recipe, didn't have sufficient emulsifier. The 25% rule for working out how much ewax to use which I mentioned above is from swiftcraftymonkey - more details here -
http://swiftcraftymonkey.blogspot.com/2010/05/e-mail-question-using-polawax-in-your.html
But I do find that if you use ewax in high % that the stearyl which is in cetearyl alcohol (cetearyl alcohol is one of the main ingredients in polawax/ewax NF) is waxy and draggy.
Stearic acid is also draggy and waxy so that combined with ewax at a high % well, no wonder your lotion is draggy/waxy (especially if you didn't add extra water to compensate for evaporation too). Note: I usually use cetyl instead of stearic.
Next time, re-do your recipe and remove the stearic acid totally (perhaps replace with 1% cetyl) and reduce the oil % so you can reduce the ewax % in proportion to it.
You might also consider ditching ewax and instead buying lotionpro 165 as its a very light emulsifier and you only need a small % of it to emulsify a high % of oils (eg 3.5% will emulsify 30% oils). But with that emulsifier do add extra cetyl alcohol as otherwise your lotion will be too thin. Lotioncrafter in their formulary section have a recipe which uses it called body butter bliss. It's a duplicate of the body shop body butters although body shop have reformulated their recipes since then with much less oils/butters than the lotioncrafter recipe. Lotionpro 165 is also a very reliable emulsifier.
Do check that you made up for the water that evaporated during the heat and hold as at least 10% evaporates