I usually make an ice water 'bath' with a bigger container to sit the lye water in once it's mixed, and that cools happily away while I get the oils, fragrance, colours, etc ready on the bench on the OTHER side of the stove - so that i have no fear of bumping or spilling the lye water.
I still wear gloves, but I don't wear safety goggles anymore as I have glasses and they cover my entire eye area so any splashes would not get in.
I like your lye cooling bath idea, hmmm. But sweetie, your eyeglasses are giving you false confidence. I have reading glasses and they are open all around, yes? I read something yesterday on one of the pro-soap folks' page that said:
" If you don't want to wear goggles, please find another hobby. "