It took several batches before I ironed out mistakes. A few things I learned that may help.
1. Try to make small batches of soap at least every couple of weeks. I think that if you wait too long in between batches you'll learn a lot more slowly - that's how it works for me at least. I started making soap when I was taking some time off and I made small batches every couple of days. I made many mistakes but I learned a lot doing it this way.
2. Make very detailed step by step instructions and follow them exactly. I still do this and it has saved me from skipping a step and leaving something out. When I first started I had a time when I would forget to EO/FO, or I'd forget to add sodium lactate to my lye water, or I'd forget to add milk after I mixed the lye and oil. Now I write out each step of the process and don't move onto the next step until I've checked off the prior step. Since I started doing this I've not forgotten anything.
3. Don't over stick blend. There was a period when I would stick blend way too much and my batter would be thicker than I wanted. Now I stick blend a little, stir and and wait. I'd rather pour too thin than too thick.
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