I empathize with you. I get the 'slime', too. Any high OO soaps I make from 60% to 100% OO ooze a layer of oliec colloid on the surface, but it only oozes out when the soap is wet during bathing/showering. It goes back indoors so to speak when there's no water outside to play in, and returns to being hard and dry until the next time it gets used.
When I first started soaping, one of my favorite soaps to make were Castile-types with 60% or 80% OO, and back then, I just didn't 'get it' when others said their soaps made with a high % of OO were slimy. I didn't know what they were talking about, because to me, my Castile-types felt luxurious and creamy to my skin- not slimy.
It wasn't until after I had read some posts on a different forum by a fellow soaper with a chemistry background who explained what the 'slime' was and how to look for it that I began to examine my soaps more closely. By that time I had made a slew of other kinds of soap other than Castile or Castile-types and was able to compare, and sure enough, I was finally able to see the slime!
I honestly didn't know how I had never noticed it before. It appeared as a thin layer of barely perceptible gel on the surface of my mostly OO soaps when wet, and when I pressed my finger into it and very slowly lifted my finger up, tiny strands of 'slime' came up with my finger. I suppose I had never noticed it before because I always use a wash cloth to lather up with when I shower or bathe, and the cloth camouflaged it or made it feel like something other than slime to me, like an extra boost of silky creaminess or something. Also making it hard to notice is that I always set my soap on a well-draining soap dish when done showering and then I forget about it until the next time I bathe. When I go to use it again, it is always hard and dry before I lather it up in my wet cloth.
Now that I know what I'm looking for, I'm able to see it even in my Castile and Castile-types that I made 4- 5 years ago that I still have on hand when wet from bathing- even if I used a steep lye solution in the 40%+ range in the making of it.
The way it was explained to me is that of all the natural oil soaps, oleic acid soap is the most water soluble, meaning that it absorbs water and goes soft more easily than other soaps. Also- instead of dissolving in the same way as other soaps do, it forms a colloid, that stuff we all refer to as 'slime'.
To me, the 'slime' is just the nature of the Castile beast. Some love it, some hate it, some don't necessarily perceive the 'slime' as slime, but as a silkiness or creaminess, while others percieve it as snot or goop and refuse to bathe with it. I must admit- if I didn't have a wash cloth or a nylon pouf to lather it up with, I'd refuse to bathe with my Castile's too. They feel very slimy in my bare hands and the lather is nil...... but not so with my wash cloth or pouf. They turn my Castiles/Castile-types into something wonderful.
IrishLass