First off thank you for the except...I have been reading and reading till I think I understand something then I have myself all confused all over again...I havent made a batch yet cause I cant get my #to add up to where my palmitic +stearic to go above 20 to get a lasting bar or my lauric+myristic above 20 to get hard bar from what ive read...Im looking to make a soap that a woman would find gentle and moisturizing and a man to find the right amount of cleansing to where I have a one fits all or willing to do seprate open for anything and want to make a lotion bar also..my oils and butter I have to work with are evoo,oop,conola,coconut oil76,aloe vera oil,rice bran,castor,sunflower,soybean,grapeseed and shea butter...I dont want to use tallow,lard or palm..I have tried to configurate a few recipes on soapcalc but keep getting stuck...why? cause I decided I wanted to start a hobby to try and turn into a business to help with my depression and high functioning anxiety so one day candles came to mind but this is how my mind works..I was worried about getting the wick an container size right so it wouldnt break or to high flame and everything that could go wrong and would with me so I thought.. if i could learn cp soap making wicking a candle would be a heck of alot easier not sure the connection but thats my mind..cause I did want to branch off into soap after candles just doing it the other way around now..so I bought oils have been reading and will read till the cows come home and still be confused so BY DAY END TODAY I WILL MAKE MY FIRST BATCH with your help please .I dont like to ask for help so Im trying to learn that also..trying to learn cp is not helping my anxiety at all it is making it go haywire so I want to make today and get it over im not worried about the lye im worried about messing it up and wasting the oils but i know that apart of learning but it still hits the pocket..thank you for reading my ramble and for help im going to include a few pic of what i have caculated and any ifo would help or if you can come up with something from the oils above and the descriptions of what looking for would be greatly appreciate by me for my sanity thank you in advance