I use the bathtub or laundry room sink. Put your bucket/buckets in the tub/sink and fill as high as you can with hot water (as hot as comes out of your faucet). It will take a while for the whole bucket to melt and you may have to change the water a few times, but it will all melt, esp if you go in and stir it up every hour of so. Once it's all melted, take it out, split up as desired, and put it someplace cool. Stir it up every 30-60 minutes until you can't stir it anymore. Once it's thick enough that you can't stir it, you can let it solidify the rest of the way and that's it. I've done it with a couple 50 pound buckets. It takes time, but once you're done, you're done. Start in the am!
If you have any warm weather on the way and can wait, you can stick it in a car parked in the sun and it will melt without a problem.