I'm going to be the odd one out and say that I think your recipe looks pretty nice (especially when I look at the fatty acid profile), and kinda luxurious with all that lovely shea in there.
With only 44% OO, that soap shouldn't be putting out too much slime, but then again, such things are very subjective- i.e., one person's perception of 'slime', or even 'lots of slime' can be very different from another's. For what it's worth, one of my main formulas uses 50% OO and I don't find it slimy at all. But then again, that's just me.
Now, my 100% OO soap....well that is a whole different story (think Cujo, if you are familiar with that movie from '83 about the rabid dog dripping slimy saliva everywhere). The slime on my 100% OO soap is pretty much like that. lol
In any case, it looks like you used quite a bit more water to make your soap than I would have used. This is just me, but if it had been me making the soap, I would have only used 225 grams of water (a 33% lye concentration) instead of 267g (a 29.35 lye concentration). The amount you used is considered in the realm of a 'full water' amount, which can make for a softer soap at un-molding time (but it will cure out hard).
If your soap has cured for a minimum of 4 weeks but it is still soft and seems to be melting faster than your other batches, I'm going to point the finger at the most obvious problematic things that stick out to me: the amount of extra oil you used for mixing your oxides (what kind of oil was it, and how much did you use?), and the large, but unknown amount of orange EO you added.
The generally accepted maximum rate for EOs in soap is 3% (in weight) of the weight of your oil amount (for FOs it's generally a 6% maximum). I understand the desire to end up with a soap that has a wonderful scent-throw, but it's really best to stick to the recommended amounts if you want to avoid problems in the soap. And as then others have said- it's always best to weigh them.
I agree with Lenarenee that the white film is most likely harmless ash. Ash happens to all of us at one time or another. You can just wash it off under water.
ETA: Welcome to the forum! :wave:
IrishLass